Working trip to Sydney

My boss has asked me to go Sydney to meet and discuss with counterparts overthere. It will be 5 working days, plus travelling time it will be a whole week.

Trip is not till end of the month, but just thinking about it right now is making me uneasy and sad.. I have never been away from my kids and hubby for sooo long... the last time we brought Evonne to London and left Marcus behind, he was still a baby and at least I had hubby and Evonne with me. This time none of them will be around... and the trip is soo long!!!

I will miss them soooooo soooo dearly!

Huge burden and stressed out at work..

It's back to work again and I feel stressed once again...
I really want to launch this project but I am inexperience, and the bosses are not helping either.
Sigh. .. now how?

Jackpot

Still got pounding headache today, resorted to taking 2 tables of panadol at one go. Now feeling better, at least no more pounding...

I have to go buy Jackpot, because although I claimed it, I must also buy it otherwise how to strike leh?
I need a less stressful job and life, and be able to spend time with my family...

结婚宣誓词

Saw this, and brought back memories...
Sigh... say easy, but can do or not? 老婆永远是第一位.. say and showing it is different. People can tell whether you really put your wife as the 1st priority... action speaks louder than words.

各位父老乡亲：

今天，是我和妻子新婚大喜的日子，历经了几年你追我赶的辛苦，今天的结合真是来之不易。所以，为了牢记这个美好时刻，珍惜这段美好姻缘，让老婆的家人放心，也让各位亲朋好友放心，现在宣誓为据：

第一，坚持老婆的绝对领导。家里老婆永远是第一位，孩子第二位，小狗第三位，我第四位。

第二，认真执行“四子”原则，对老婆像孙子，对岳母像孝子，吃饭像蚊子，干活像驴子。

第三，爱护老婆，做文明丈夫，做到“打不还手，骂不还口，笑脸迎送冷面孔。”

第四，诚心接受老婆感情上的独裁，“不要和陌生人说话”，尤其不能跟陌生女人说话。当然，问路的老太太除外。

第五，坚持工资奖金全部上缴制度。不涂改工资条，不在衣柜里藏钱。不过，每月可以申请领取500元零花。括弧，日元。

第六，积极响应“六蛋”号召。只能看老婆的脸蛋，出门前要吻脸蛋，睡觉要贴着脸蛋。老了，决不能喊她“变蛋”，老婆骂“混蛋”，我就是“软蛋”。

Get well soon lah...

I just popped another panadol, it is my third one this week...

Not only am I having prolonged flu and cough, which weakens me, I also recently developed eye infection (but thankfully I am almost recovered for that now). Have just been so tired lately, so tired that when I drive to work in the morning, I will almost fall asleep towards end of my drive, usually when I am in SMART tunnel and when it is not moving. So I resort to sleeping in the car for 15 mins after I parked for the past 2-3 days. Then I go into the office and I will have this naggy headache lightly pounding on my head.. I am just not in the mood and not able to fight the battle right now so I will take panadol to take the pain away.

Think my flu and cough is slowly going away, and hopefully I will fully recover soon. But then again, anyone seen a sick person recover quickly when she still has to do EVERYTHING that she normally does when she is not sick? That is like hauling a sick engine to its usual chores, and expect it to still function normally at usual speed, AND recover at the same time. Kind of high level of expectation lor if you ask me...

Why we need you..

Saw this article, and thought to myself, how true...
And I can still hear ringings in my ear saying "I have to do this better, do that well, do everything by myself, training me to do better..." If I am and can do everything, why would I need someone else to come take care of me?


一个女人很想和老公一起去旅游，

安排了许久，老公永远都没有空，

从此以后，她的旅程里，不再需要老公。 

她和朋友去做美容，太晚天又下雨了，

她打电话让老公来接她，

电话那头的他不耐烦的说了句：

外面下那么大雨，你就不能自己打個車回来啊？

从那时起，她便不再需要老公的接送。

冬夜和他外出，路面结冰了，很滑，

她不由自主的牵住了他的手，他卻自顧自的走著，

从此以后，她再没有需要呵護的時候。

曾经看过一句特别经典的话：

有时候女人需要一个男人，

就像逃机者需要降落伞，

如果此时此刻他不在，

那么以后他也不必在了。

这是真实的女人心理世界，

她可以很需要你，你就是一切；

她也可以再也不需要你，

你就什么都不是了！